Hello! How are you doing? Hope you are fine? Well I’m good thank you.

So few days ago I was talking with a friend and he told me how he will never be in a relationship again. I asked why? He said because all the ladies he professed love to ended up playing with his feelings and using him. He also said ladies are liabilities to men. He said a lot but basically that discussion prompted this post mainly for the guys after which I’ll make another post on “before you say “I love you too” for the ladies but everyone can read as no knowledge is a waste. I hope you learn a whole lot. So here are things you must know…

5 THINGS YOU MUST KNOW BEFORE YOU SAY “I LOVE YOU” TO A GIRL:

• Love Yourself First!!; this is very important. Remember Jesus told us to love our neighbors ‘as’ we love ourselves, meaning you can’t love your neighbor better than you love yourself, so to love your neighbor perfectly you must love yourself perfectly. It’s applicable to any relationship including romantic relationship.

• Be Ready To Be Selfless; a successful relationship consists of two selfless individuals. Bro you have to forget about yourself and focus on who you love, be ready to do that all the time. You can’t be thinking of yourself and say you love her. She has to be your priority.

• Make Sure You Love The Whole Package; make sure you love her mood swings and anger issues the same way you love her curves and smile. Yes, so that the day she shows you that annoying part your love won’t turn to hate, which only means you never loved her. Make sure you are ready to take anything and behavior that comes from her.

• Get Ready For Commitment; dear lover boy, be ready to give your time (probably for business and making money or time for doing something fruitful) and attention to this girl you love. Be ready to commit your money (that’s if you have money) so that when she demands for anything you’ll do it immediately instead of complaining, this also is a way of proving love. Be ready to forfeit important things to be with her. Finally…

• Make Sure She Is “The One”; bro! Love is too big and vast that it’s best to save it for the right girl for you so you don’t waste it on the wrong girls and have nothing left for the right one, (topic for another day) lol. Here’s one tip to know if she’s the right one: you’ll see your future with her in it. I hope you are not just seeing her as someone you’ll just take out and buy ice cream and shawarma, you are not seeing the both of you in the next five years and you are telling her you love her?

Love is a word that shouldn’t just be said except you are fully aware of the above listed. It’s ignorance that has made our youths to just say things casually. Well I hope this was helpful? Please tell me what you think! You know it’ll be highly appreciated! Don’t forget you can also reach me on any social media platform. Bye for now.